sex POSITIONS & Sucessess

Cross Buttocks

How to: She'll enjoy this because it stimulates the side of her vaginal walls, something she normally doesn't feel. Insert yourself into your partner in the missionary position, but lie across her pelvis, slightly askew, while still supporting your weight on your elbows.

Switch it up: If she wants more eye contact, transition back to missionary or try the spork.

Perfect for: All-about-her sex.

Knees to Chest

How to: Enter her as you would in the standard missionary position, but instead of simply spreading her legs, have her lift her knees to her chest and hook her ankles over your shoulders. Support your weight on your hands. This gives you greater penetration and stimulates the back walls of her vagina.

Switch it up: Slide her feet down to your chest for the shoulder holder.

Perfect for: After her yoga class.

Man on Top, Facing Away

How to: Have her lie down with her legs uplifted and spread. Then lower yourself between her legs, with your head going in the direction of her feet, entering in reverse. She’ll have full access to your scrotum, buttocks, and anus for adding teasing and pleasuring.

Switch it up: Rest your weight on your elbows, which gives you leverage to lightly thrust backward.

Perfect for: Nights when you need a spanking.

Missionary

How to: Lie between her spread legs, so that you're lying on top of her and are face-to-face. While supporting your weight on your elbows or hands, insert your erect penis up into her, so it's parallel to her vaginal walls.

Switch it up: Wrap her legs around your waist to change the shape of her vagina, which will alter the sensation for both of you.

Perfect for: First-time sex.

Classic Rear Entry, Kneeling

How to: A.k.a. “doggy style.” Position yourself so you're kneeling behind her, then insert yourself and remain between her legs either upright or leaning over so your body drapes over hers. Great for deep penetration, and it allows you to hit her G-spot while stroking her clitoris, breasts, hair, and back—just don’t pet her like a dog.

Switch it up: Sit back for man chair, or lie down for downward dog.

Perfect for: Hitting all her hot spots.

Rear Entry, Standing

How to: Stand behind her and have her bend over at the waist, keeping her upper body parallel to the floor. Hold her hips for support and enter from behind. Standing up gives you more thrusting power and allows you to caress her clitoris for extra stimulation.

Switch it up: Make up for differences in height by bending at the knees or having her stand on something stable.

Perfect for: Quickie sex—especially if she's wearing a skirt.